Some words

Love is not limited resource that can be used up. It's unlimited resource that is waiting for you to explore. 

We're playing the game called life with two resources: Time and Attention. Improve your physical health to earn more time; while improve your mental health to earn more attention. And always remember that the measure that is taken into calculation is not the absolute but the delta.

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Words to a friend

[To record these words to a friend]

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An incident to remember

Mark this day for an incident triggering deep thoughts.

My friend K has a thick shell outside as I always know and is used to use mean attitude to cover his soft and vulnariable heart. I see him as an important and unique friend to whom I give the most of my tolerance and caring. Today when he rejected my one proposal with again a little mean attitude and without giving explanations, I responded by comparing him with another common friend T and claimed that the other friend treats me much tenderly and would even want to offer his kitchen for my birthday party. I didn't intend to demean him and make him less than the common friend. But what he said next really irritated and hurt me. He said that the common friend told him privately in their drinking event that he wouldn't want to even attend my birthday party. I have no doubt that what he said should be factual for our common friend is a person as such - mocking and saying harsh words which don't reveal his true meaning.  After hearing it, I was really upset and later angry, not because of anything regarding my birthday party, but because I don't want this common friend be used to demonstrate a bad intent or behavior. I don't want anyone to demean him and ruin his reputation. 

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谜团

我的人生里有几个谜团,比如李修和、比如新加坡女人,谜底揭晓的时候应该有什么样的感触呢?

没有欢喜没有痛苦的人生,是不是会很无聊呢?大把大把的时间应该如何消磨呢?

同步性事件记录

又发现了一个同步性事件。

多年前收到徐峥的第一个礼物很特别,是一张万智牌的天使牌。他很痴迷于这款桌面游戏。NU时代阿楠甚至把万智牌制作成了在线游戏。

昨天惊讶的发现,我现任老板Beth Fischi的老公Allan Varney就是万智牌的发明人之一。

品质

经过很多时间、很多人、很多事,才确知一件事情:

人存在世上的唯一目的是锤炼自己的品质。包括爱、谦逊、理解、宽容、忍耐、慈悲、牺牲... ...

所有的发生,都是给予我们机会去锤炼这些品质,直至灵魂能够得到完全净化。聪明、机敏、巧善,各样的技能,对人生而言毫无意义,无非是在锤炼品质时抛溅出的一些副产品,有则善用,无则释然。

我在此生已经接受的考验里,有些顺利通过、有些遗憾失败。很想对所有顺利通过的试炼表示感激,对那些因我的失败而伤害到的人们表达真诚的歉意,无论你们是否能够看到。

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把人生历炼的安排交给更高的力量

今早上班路上突然又想到了一件事情。

人生的经历,比如会遇到什么人、事,大多由业力所决定,前世的业报必须代偿,非人力所能左右。这既可以说是自作自受,也可以说是遵循至高无上的天道。既然如此,就把人生历练的安排交给更高的力量,坚持在人、事遭遇时保持正念、正信、正行,历经劫难之后,方能重生。

当你希望得到什么的时候,一定以最正确的念头向这个更高的力量提出需求,并坚信你同它是一种合作的关系:它为你安排故事的情节,而你全心修炼自己,直到你们共同把所希望的结果创造出来。

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伴侣

今天突然想明白了一种关系:伴侣。

这种关系应该是超越世俗定义的一切形式,譬如夫妻、朋友、情人、父母、师生等等。这种关系由一个承诺维系,承诺的对象并非他人,而是自己。承诺全心全意的去体验一个完整独立的人格与另一个完整独立的人格之间通过长久而持续的互动,能够为短暂的今生带来什么样灵魂学习与转变。明白并承诺自己会去经历各种物质世界的诱惑,偿付过去生的业缘,但却不会被诱惑与业缘所降服,其中的痛苦与喜悦都是既真实又虚幻的,但都是为了最终与对方分享这种灵魂的成长。这样的关系将永不离弃,因为从未执着与拥有,便无可离弃。而真正维系这种关系的,仅仅是对自己的承诺,与对世界的抽离。也许这就是所谓的“双生火焰”。

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是吸引力法则?

今早意识到一件很有趣的事情,好奇是否是吸引力法则在工作。应该是从去年开始,不记得是不是完全受韩国版《步步惊心》影响,我突然跟朋友们说很想认识韩国人。之后大家开始出谋划策,聊应该如何认识韩国人,还有几个朋友开玩笑说要介绍韩国相亲对象。之后的11月, 部门招聘实习生,竟然从中看到一份韩国学生的应聘简历,当时心里一阵开心,有机会接触平生第一个韩国人。面试过程非常顺利,小朋友表现优秀,让我一度想直接盖棺定

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[转载]关于老灵魂这件事

转载前的话:生而不有、为而不恃、长而不宰,是为玄德。有时候甚至感觉,如果有人能够用文字表达出我心里所想,又何必由我自己来写呢。在修行的場域中,常會看到有些人很擅長冥想,也很敞開地學習很多靈性資訊;他們也信任能量,但是可能缺乏行動,擅長在自己的世界中去咀嚼他們所學習到的靈性。他們在等待更好的時機,也就是等到他們覺得已經整合而大可以行動的時候,這類人在修行的世界很常見。也可以說他們非常超脫世俗,對世事

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