Some words

Love is not limited resource that can be used up. It's unlimited resource that is waiting for you to explore. 

We're playing the game called life with two resources: Time and Attention. Improve your physical health to earn more time; while improve your mental health to earn more attention. And always remember that the measure that is taken into calculation is not the absolute but the delta.


Words to a friend

[To record these words to a friend]


An incident to remember

Mark this day for an incident triggering deep thoughts.

My friend K has a thick shell outside as I always know and is used to use mean attitude to cover his soft and vulnariable heart. I see him as an important and unique friend to whom I give the most of my tolerance and caring. Today when he rejected my one proposal with again a little mean attitude and without giving explanations, I responded by comparing him with another common friend T and claimed that the other friend treats me much tenderly and would even want to offer his kitchen for my birthday party. I didn't intend to demean him and make him less than the common friend. But what he said next really irritated and hurt me. He said that the common friend told him privately in their drinking event that he wouldn't want to even attend my birthday party. I have no doubt that what he said should be factual for our common friend is a person as such - mocking and saying harsh words which don't reveal his true meaning.  After hearing it, I was really upset and later angry, not because of anything regarding my birthday party, but because I don't want this common friend be used to demonstrate a bad intent or behavior. I don't want anyone to demean him and ruin his reputation. 


Goodbye 2017

Well, tradition is tradition. Year end is coming. Perfect time to do retrospect and the new year's outlook. 
Probably starting from actual happenings.
January 2017 - Italy road trip with Gay. Drove 5000km by myself from south to north, passing by Genova, Rome, Florence, Tuscany mountains and Naple. Amazing trip with spectecular views, plenty of spaggettes in all flavors, unforgettable one. 



7:46AM CET, December 18, Monday. I'm preparing mentally and physically for a new start of my blog. I've been writing blogs in Chinese for over 10 years. Generally there isn't any problem of expressing my thoughts and revealing my deep emotions in Chinese, which is my mother tongue. But I must admit that doing the same in English is not that simple. Maybe it is the right time to challenge myself in acquiring a new skill. Why not.





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